Born
to Laugh
It
did not take Lee S. Fehling's mother long to know that she had
a character on her hands. "You know when the doctor slaps
you on the back and the baby cries?" said his mother, Joan
Bischoff. "Lee came out laughing."
Mr.
Fehling, 28, relished a good telephone prank, calling his mother,
an insurance investigator, and claiming to be an investigation
subject, or impersonating a Nassau County official to inform a
friend that her garage violated zoning restrictions.
"He
wasn't ever a fan of dull moments," said his younger brother,
Thomas.
This
was particularly problematic for those who played bagpipes with
Mr. Fehling in the American Legion band in Wantagh, on Long Island,
where he lived. (Just try playing the pipes while cracking up.)
Mr.
Fehling, a firefighter with Engine Company 235 in Brooklyn, could
always make his wife, Danielle, smile, but he could never fool
her. "I could tell a mile away if he was up to something,"
she said.
He
adored his daughter Kaitlin, 4. But his stepsister-in-law Jennifer
Bischoff thinks she knows the real reason he was pleased that
the second little Fehling would also be a girl. (Megan was born
Oct. 18.)
"He
was afraid a little boy would be just like him," she said,
chuckling. "And he wouldn't be able to handle it."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 21, 2001.
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