Lee
S. Fehling
'Good
Guy That He Was' Also Remembered Others
November
13, 2001
There's
a round table that sits in the dining area in the firehouse of Engine Co. 235
in Bedford Stuyvesant, an incomplete memorial to the deceased and missing men
of the company. Joan Bischoff's son, Lee Fehling, 28, a firefighter in the company,
began the memorial several months ago, his mother said.
"He
wanted to paint a shield on that table for every one of the guys from his firehouse
that were either missing or had been killed," she said.
Fehling
was asked by the men of his company to paint the table after they had seen a
mural in a Coney Island firehouse that Fehling had painted last December depicting
Coney Island and the men of that firehouse.
Now
the men of Engine Co. 235 are working to finish the table. They will soon add
Fehling's name.
Fehling,
28, died in the terrorist attacks of Sept.11.
Born
in Wantagh in 1972, Fehling graduated from Holy Trinity High School in Hicksville
in 1990. At 18, he took both the police department and firefighter exams, his
mother said. Although he was accepted into the New York Police Department, he
had to wait three more years before he went to work.
At
21, Fehling joined the 109th Precinct in Flushing, where he worked for five
years, his mother said. During his lunch break Fehling would play a chanter,
an instrument similar to a flute, to hone his bagpiping skills.
Bischoff
said her son was also proficient in the saxophone, clarinet, piano and accordion.
But he fell in love with the bagpipes and was amember of the Wantagh American
Legion Bagpipe Band.
Fehling
had a mischievous side, too. "He was a character while he was growing up,"
his mother said. "He was the family clown, and he always kept things lighthearted."
Last
June, Fehling phoned his wife Danielle's friend who had just purchased a new
home. He identified himself as a representative from Nassau County and told
her that her fence was encroaching on her neighbor's property. She hung up the
phone in shock. Fehling hung up in stitches.
"I
miss his smile and his sense of humor the most," his wife said.
Their
two children, Kaitlin, 4, and Morgan Lee, 8 months, have kept her busy. "The
kids have been a real distraction," she said.
When
asked what she wants her husband to be remembered for, Danielle Fehling said:
"I just want him to be remembered for the good guy that he was."
--
Nick Iyer (Newsday)
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