A
Family Man Who Loved Simple Pleasures
November
1, 2001
On
the morning of Sept. 11, VinnieCarla Agnello was walking beside
her son, Salvatore, who was riding his bike to his nursery school.
From their
community of Belle Harbor, they could see across to the clear city
skyline
where smoke was billowing from the World Trade Center towers. She
thought it was a normal fire. "Look, honey," she said
to her 3-year-old son, "Daddy's there helping people."
She
said she couldn't wait for her husband to come home and tell him
that
their son rode his bicycle to preschool that morning.
Joseph
Agnello, 35, was indeed at the World Trade Center. A firefighter
with Ladder Co. 118 in Brooklyn Heights, his wife wouldn't find
out until later that day that Agnello was among the hundreds of
missing firefighters. But when she got to the school and heard what
had happened, her heart immediately sank. "I knew he was in
that building," she said.
The
couple, married nine years, has two sons, Salvatore and Vincent,
1. VinnieCarla
Agnello describes her husband as a great family man. "I know
it seems like I'm making this up, but he was such a good husband
and good father," she said.
"He
would come home after a 24-hour shift, work his side job and then
play with the kids, give them baths."
The
couple met in a nightclub. She thought he was very handsome and
- once they started talking - a really nice guy. "And after
all these years
together, he never disappointed me," she said.
A
simple man, Agnello never looked for credit for his accomplishments,
nor wanted for material possessions. He found comfort and happiness
in the little things: being with his family and looking up at the
sky on a starry night. "Sometimes, when I take the dogs to
the beach for a walk and I look up, I know he's still around,"
his wife said. "Like tonight. There's the most beautiful moon,
and I know he's with me."
--
Stacey Altherr (Newsday)
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