MARLBORO
— Eighth-graders at the Marlboro Middle School will have
the opportunity to consider — and write about — the
spirit of volunteerism in a spring 2002 essay contest that will
not only help them to think about the rewards of community service,
but also keep alive the name of a recently lost hero.
Bruce
Berent, a co-owner of Lola’s, a children’s and teen
clothing store on Route 9, Manalapan, has offered to allocate
contributions for the next 10 years to the middle school for the
Alan Feinberg Student Award Tribute Fund, to provide a $100 U.S.
savings bond for the winner of the contest,. The second- and third-place
winners will receive $50 savings bonds.
Feinberg,
48, died Sept. 11 as a first-responder firefighter at the scene
of the World Trade Center attack. Feinberg was a full-time fireman
with Battalion No. 9 of the Fire Department of New York in midtown
Manhattan. He is survived by his wife, Wendy; daughter, Tara,
18; and son, Michael, 15.
More
than 1,200 people attended a memorial service for Feinberg on
Sept. 25 at the Marlboro Jewish Center. Feinberg was known in
the community for his love of sports, having coached Little League
baseball and participated in the Marlboro Softball League.
Berent
said he knew Feinberg since they were teen-agers, both having
attended the Seth Low Junior High School and Lafayette High School
in Brooklyn, N.Y. Both men eventually moved to Marlboro’s
Colts Brook housing development.
The
essay contest will begin in March 2002, and the winners will be
presented with their awards at an assembly in June, just prior
to graduation, according to Marlboro Middle School Principal Dr.
Stephan Charton.
"Mr.
Feinberg’s friends wanted to do something in honor of him,"
said Charton. "It’s a great way to keep Mr. Feinberg’s
name a living thing for years to come. It’s wonderful when
people give kids an opportunity to respond to serious issues."
Berent
recalled Feinberg as "a very loving father, somebody who
was willing to help anyone, and very generous with his time and
advice."
Feinberg
was one of 12 Marlboro residents and, according to Wendy Feinberg,
one of 15 members from his fire company, who died in the tragedy.
Mrs.
Feinberg, who lovingly remembered her spouse as someone who enjoyed
the beach, cars and being a fireman, said she spoke with her husband
for the last time on Sept. 10, the night before the disaster.
She said she never considered the possibility that he might not
come home.
"I
never worried about him," she said, indicating the tremendous
amount of faith she carried. "He always came home; it was
just a matter of when. I don’t think there are many people
who, literally, would walk into that (World Trade Center) situation.
Most people would walk away."
Mrs.
Feinberg said she and her children want to express their heartfelt
thanks and gratitude to all who have offered prayers, support,
love, generosity and kindness in the days and weeks following
Sept. 11.
Berent
said he and his wife, Lola, have chosen to sponsor the middle
school essay contest because "Alan’s name should be
remembered, because he was a hero who died saving lives."
Berent
pointed out that Feinberg’s heroism went beyond the tragedy
of Sept. 11; he had, Berent said, assisted many other people during
his service as a fireman.
"Unfortunately,
this time he couldn’t get out of it," Berent said.
The
essay contest will also be a rewarding way to inspire young people
by getting them to think of the benefits that result from volunteer
efforts, he said.
"What
better way for children to know who Alan Feinberg is? What better
way for our children to learn about public service to the community
than to write about it?" Berent asked.
In
another community-minded effort, Lola’s is donating $5 from
each sale of a specific type of patriotic sweat pants (costing
$29) to any of the families in Monmouth County who lost loved
ones in the Sept. 11 tragedy and who contact the store. The collected
funds will be distributed after Dec. 31 to any of the affected
area families who contact Berent at (732) 972-5222.
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