Raymond
Matthew Downey A Legend's Family Keeps Hope for Him Alive September
13, 2001 Among the elite rescue firefighters who served under
him, Ray Downey was held in awe for his uncanny ability to arrive
at a major disaster and size up the mayhem with little more than
a glance. In a quiet voice, with no discussion, he would start
doling out instructions and assignments and call for equipment
no one had thought of. Somehow, miraculously, the chaos would
transform itself into a smooth and orderly rescue operation. That’s
why his fellow New York City firefighters called him “God.” And
one of the reasons his family believes the mayor of New York and
leading media organizations spoke too soon when they listed him
as dead. While CNN and The Associated Press ran stories yesterday
listing the nationally renowned special operations chief as killed
in the collapse of the World Trade Center, his two firefighter
sons searched the rubble in hopes of finding him alive. The rest
of his family lobbied their congressman, led prayers in church
and called newspapers to keep him on the list of the living. “My
father is not dead,” his third son, teacher Ray Downey, insisted
early yesterday morning, after reading the morning papers. “They
have not found him. People are going to stop praying for him.
He’s still in there. We’re still praying, and I still want everyone
else to pray.” The Twin Towers fell down over and over on the
big TV screen in his daughter Marie Tortorici’s Deer Park living
room yesterday morning as friends and family milled in and out
of the house, waiting for word from her brothers Chuck and Joe
Downey. Chuck, a fire lieutenant, and Joe, a captain, were following
up on tips from firefighters who thought they were the last to
see him alive. So far, none of the sightings had panned out. But
the reports have given the family hope, another daughter, Kathy
Ugalde, said Tuesday night, recalling one promising lead from
a firefighter who had seen Downey running from the billowing dust
of the falling second tower. Ugalde said Chuck called her mother,
Rosalie, and said, ‘‘We’re going to get him, Mom, we’re going
to get him. We know where he is.” But a few hours later, the family
was taken by surprise when Giuliani held a televised press conference
listing Downey among the dead. Ray Downey had just phoned a reporter
to say his father might still be alive. “My brother went to two
morgues and it was not him, so there is still hope he’s under
the rubble, breathing.” New York City firefighters know they are
viewed as the nation’s toughest, but they drop their swagger when
Downey’s name is mentioned. The operations chief led an FDNY emergency
rescue team to Oklahoma City and directed recovery work after
the first bombing at the World Trade Center in 1993. He was honored
by the mayor at a dinner at Gracie Mansion just last month. Friends
say he planned to retire next year at age 64. After years as captain
of the busiest rescue squad in Brooklyn, Downey helped pioneer
a national network of eight search and rescue teams under the
federal Emergency Management Agency. Many of the members of the
eight FEMA teams now searching for him were his trainees. And
in his spare time, he traveled across the country preaching the
need to prepare for terrorism, said Hal Bruno, chairman of the
National Fallen Firefighters Foundation. “The general consensus
in the current atmosphere is that the next war we fight will be
in an urban area,” Downey told Newsday in 1997. Downey also helped
teach some of his techniques to senior commanders of the Marine
Corps and the Navy, running combat scenarios in high-rise buildings
and sewers, some of them in the trade center neighborhood, in
1997. “It’s ironic, he’s an expert in collapses and now he’s in
one,” Ugalde said Tuesday night. “I just feel like my dad saved
so many people this way, I just want someone to save him.” Ugalde
said her brother Joe learned his father’s nickname after joining
the department, when fellow firefighters kept teasingly calling
him ‘‘Jesus.’’ But by yesterday morning, after seven members of
Joe Downey’s squad were lost and his father remained missing,
the religious kidding turned into real novenas and a stubborn
refusal to lose faith. Giuliani’s announcement was “a miscommunication,”
Ugalde said, as she stood on the driveway outside the Deer Park
high ranch she shared with her parents. A few feet away on the
lawn, a handpainted wooden sign promised “Grandma and Grandpa:
Hugs and Kisses. Sleepovers. Milk and Cookies.” An American flag
was planted on the other side of the driveway. As Ugalde talked,
her daughter, Gina, chimed in that she had been facing a similar
miscommunication problem at John F. Kennedy Intermediate School
in Deer Park. She said her third-grade class was summoned to an
assembly at which her grandfather’s name was mentioned as among
those killed in the attack. “I told them it wasn’t true,” she
said, fingering the two rosaries her mother had given her that
morning. “He’s not dead!” repeated a woman serving at the 12:15
Mass at St. Cyril and St. Methodius Roman Catholic Church, where
the firefighter’s family joined with 150 other congregants to
pray for him and others missing in the attack. U.S. Rep. Steve
Israel (D-Huntington) picked up the mantra yesterday evening after
receiving two calls from the family. He went to the floor of Congress
to insist that it was too early to pronounce Ray Downey dead.
Israel said a Downey family member told him that Oklahoma Gov.
Frank Keating called yesterday to convey his condolences, but
the family asked for his prayers instead. As the hours ground
on last night, there still was no good news for the Downey family.
“Nothing yet,” Tortorici said as she waited by the phone. --Elizabeth
Moore (Newsday)
Sept. 15, 2001 As thousands of families waited for word of loved
ones lost beneath the rubble of the World Trade Center, the daughter
of a missing New York Fire Department special operations chief
had some advice: "Don't believe what you read in the paper or
see on TV," said Kathy Ugalde, daughter of Ray Downey, who led
rescue efforts after the Oklahoma City bombing and was helping
to do the same Tuesday morning when the twin towers crumbled to
dust. "My father told me that a million times." Downey's family
says the chief is not dead, despite pronouncements from no less
than New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani that it's so. Until his remains
have been pulled from the wreckage and positively identified,
his sons and daughters know there is hope--because Downey himself
has directed rescue operations in which people have been pulled,
alive, from seemingly hopeless carnage. Two of his sons are among
the firefighters now digging through the ruins in search of survivors.
"Hold on," Ugalde offered on Friday to other families entrenched
in the wait. "They're not done yet." --Jeff Long (The Chicago
Tribune)
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