'He
Was a Presence All His Own'
October 17, 2001
Angela
Tiberi said her mother, Marion DeRubbio, listens to the last phone
messages from her son, David, on her answering machine over and
over again.
David
DeRubbio's 12-year-old daughter, Jessica, looks at the clouds
her father recently painted on her bedroom ceiling of their Bensonhurst
home.
His
wife, Lori, spends her time with her husband's firefighter friends,
who stay most of the day at the house to look after her.
Angela
herself looks at the picture of her brother and asks, "Why?"
The
DeRubbio family is mourning the loss of a father, brother, uncle,
husband, son and friend.
David
DeRubbio, 38, is one of more than 320 firefighters missing in
the World Trade Center disaster.
Handsome,
with bright blue eyes and a hearty laugh, DeRubbio was known as
the family cutup. "Crazy Uncle Dave" was how he was
affectionately known to his nieces and nephews, said Angela.
He
was the one who consumed the room, she said. The one the party
couldn't start without. "He was a presence all his own."
After
a series of jobs, DeRubbio followed three of his four brothers
into the fire department three years ago and was stationed at
Engine Co. 226 in downtown Brooklyn.
At
DeRubbio's graduation ceremony, Angela remembered her father,
Albert DeRubbio, overhearing a man saying, "Now I have two
sons to worry about." DeRubbio responded, "Now I have
four."
"It's
always in the back of your mind that my brothers have dangerous
professions," said Angela. "It's scary, even more so
now." Angela said that the close-knit family has pulled even
closer together, and don't take each other for granted anymore.
There are more kisses and tears to go around. "We say, 'I
love you.' We don't leave things unsaid," she said. -- Stacey
Altherr (Newsday)
David Paul Derubbio was a city firefighter who loved to make people
laughand often made himself the butt of the joke. His sister recalls
once at a family gathering,when the guests were trying to watch
television, DeRubbio impersonated a lounge singer andbelted out
a rendition of “Mack the Knife.” “It was so
stupid, but it was so funny,” said hissister, Angela Tiberi.
She said his “bright blue eyes were so full of life and
his smileirreplaceable.” DeRubbio is among those missing
at the World Trade Center. His wife, Lorraine,called her husband
the funniest person she ever met. “He made me laugh more
than anyone,” shesaid.
--The Associated Press
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