One Day, a Speaking Part
When Jerry Garcia of the Grateful Dead died in 1995, Carl Asaro was devastated.
A self-proclaimed Deadhead, Mr. Asaro held a memorial service and barbecue
in honor of Mr. Garcia in his backyard, complete with 50 guests, candles and
the band's T-shirts hung along the side of the deck.
When
his wife and six children realized that Mr. Asaro, a 39-year-old firefighter
at the
Ninth Battalion in Manhattan, was not coming home to Middletown, N.Y.,
they decorated his memorial service with some of the band's paraphernalia:
T-shirts, Christmas ornaments, pictures. Songs like "Touch of Gray" and "Friend
of the Devil" were played. It was a fitting tribute, they said, to his
love for music. Mr. Asaro played the piano, the guitar and the piccolo.
A
firefighter since 1987, Mr. Asaro also enjoyed playing one on television.
He was an extra
in several movies including "15 Minutes," "The
Siege" and "Frequency." He played a paramedic on "The Sopranos," "Law
and Order" and "Third Watch."
He
dreamed of having a speaking part. "He always said one day he might
go to Hollywood and be famous," said Heloiza Asaro, his wife. "And
I said, 'Yes, you go to Hollywood and leave me here with all the kids.' He
said no, I would be his agent."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 27, 2001.
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